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Politics and Law

Stuart Delery

Attorney and Gay Dad to Become White House Counsel

Attorney Stuart Delery, currently deputy counsel to the president, will become White House counsel next month, President Biden announced. Delery joins several other queer parents with leading roles in the administration.

Charlotte Sweeney. Photo credit: Laura Mahoney. Used with permission of Sweeney & Bechtold, LLC.

First Out LGBTQ Federal Judge in Colorado Is Also a Mom

From the latest “queer parents making a mark” files: The U.S. Senate voted at the end of May to confirm Charlotte Sweeney, a Colorado employee rights attorney and a lesbian mom, to the federal judiciary. She will be the first out LGBTQ federal judge in Colorado and the first out LGBTQ woman to serve as a federal district court judge in any state west of the Mississippi, according to the White House.

End gun violence. #GunViolenceAwarenessDay

In the Wake of Tragedy, Again

This was going to be a very different column. Then 19 children and two adults were shot and killed by a gunman at an elementary school in Uvalde, Texas.

Candles. Photo by Zoran Kokanovic

Again. Enough.

Nineteen children and two adults dead. I have written about far too many mass shootings in the United States since I started this blog 17 years ago, and far, far too many that have taken place in schools. Here are some resources for talking about the tragedy with children, taking action to help the victims’ families and community, and furthering gun control.

Colorado - Marlo's Law signing

Colorado Gov. Signs Parentage Bill Named After Child of Two Moms

Colorado Gov. Jared Polis (D) yesterday signed “Marlo’s Law,” which will ensure critical legal protections for families formed via assisted reproduction and is named after the child of the bill’s co-prime sponsor, a lesbian mom. The Colorado legislature has also recently passed a bill ensuring that donor-conceived people have access to certain information about their sperm/egg donors.

Reproductive rights rally, May 2022

A Queer Mom’s Perspective on Reproductive Rights

In 1989, I was part of the March for Women’s Lives in Washington, DC, as abortion rights were at risk of being overturned by the U.S. Supreme Court. I was still recently out as a lesbian, with no thoughts of parenthood yet on my mind, but the idea of the government forcing people to carry unwanted or life-risking pregnancies was as anathema to me as it telling me who to love.

J. Shia and son, one of many families who found themselves unprotected under current Massachusetts law. See their story at massparentage.com. Photo courtesy of J. Shia.

A Motorcycle Mom — and Her Fight for Equal Parentage

The New York Times just published an article about J. Shia, owner of a vintage motorcycle repair shop in Boston. If you recognize her name, that might be because this motorcycle builder, artist, and queer mom has also been fighting for the right to equal, legal parentage—a right that a pending bill could help ensure.

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