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		<title>Women on Bikes: Your Distaff Complement to the Tour de France</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2011/07/17/women-on-bikes-your-distaff-complement-to-the-tour-de-france/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 05:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I've been watching a lot of the Tour de France this week, as I'm a semi-rabid cyclist myself and love a good athletic endeavor, male or female. But heck, if I'm going to watch Lycra-clad butts for hours a day, I'd really rather they were of the female variety. (Because I want to emulate their cycling style, of course. What did you think I meant?)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been watching a lot of the Tour de France this week, as I&#8217;m a semi-rabid cyclist myself and love a good athletic endeavor, male or female. Given my druthers, however, if I&#8217;m going to watch Lycra-clad butts and steely quadriceps for hours a day, I&#8217;d really rather they were of the female variety. (Because I want to emulate their cycling style, of course. What did you think I meant?)</p>
<p>But the Giro Donne, the one remaining &#8220;Grand Tour&#8221; race for women cyclists, passed unnoticed in early July by almost all U.S. sports media. It ended a week ago with a win by Marianne Vos of the Netherlands. Last year&#8217;s winner Mara Abbott was the top U.S. competitor, coming in 10th.</p>
<p>Here then, is a video of the Giro Donne, featuring some of the best female athletes in the world. I&#8217;m such a sucker for sports montages.</p>
<p>(The song, &#8220;Ne ho ancora,&#8221; means &#8220;I Still,&#8221; or (as translated for the English version on <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/it/album/ne-ho-ancora-feat-irene-viboras/id446060069">iTunes</a>), &#8220;Still Ridin&#8217;,&#8221; dedicated to former junior world champion cyclist Marina Romoli, who was injured in a near-fatal crash last year.)</p>
<p><iframe width="500" height="375" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/47o_9dL9r5c" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>If you want more women on wheels, there are videos of each stage at the <a href="http://www.girodonne.it/portale/index.php?option=com_content&amp;task=blogsection&amp;id=15&amp;Itemid=111">Giro Donne</a> site or directly on <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/girodonne#p/u/1/vb5r2IgtoF4">YouTube</a>.</p>
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		<title>Fear in the Locker Room: School Sports, Homophobia, and Transphobia</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2011/05/18/fear-in-the-locker-room-school-sports-homophobia-and-transphobia/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 16:42:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Sports]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rick Welts, president and chief executive of the NBA’s Phoenix Suns, has just come out as gay. It was a significant and risky move in an industry that is not known for its tolerance of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people. (LA Laker star Kobe Bryant recently paid a $100,000 fine for calling a referee a "faggot.") And as Megan Hueter has written here at BlogHer, women’s collegiate basketball suffers similar problems. Homophobia and transphobia in sports are not confined to the professional and collegiate levels, however.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.mombian.com/images/lockers_red.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-9264" title="lockers_red" src="http://www.mombian.com/images/lockers_red.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="100" /></a><em>(Thanks to the folks over at BlogHer Sports, who have been kind enough to <a href="http://www.blogher.com/fear-locker-room-school-sports-homophobia-and-transphobia">feature</a> this piece.)</em></p>
<p>Rick Welts, president and chief executive of the NBA’s Phoenix Suns, has just <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/16/sports/basketball/nba-executive-says-he-is-gay.html?pagewanted=1">come out as gay</a>. It was a significant and risky move in an industry that is not known for its tolerance of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people. (LA Laker star Kobe Bryant recently paid a $100,000 fine for calling a referee a &#8220;faggot.&#8221;) And as Megan Hueter <a href="http://www.blogher.com/battling-homophobia-womens-basketball">has written</a> at BlogHer, women’s collegiate basketball suffers similar problems. Homophobia and transphobia in sports are not confined to the professional and collegiate levels, however.</p>
<p>For examples, we need look no further than an article last week from the <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://middletownpress.com/articles/2011/05/13/sports/doc4dcdc11e8422c210756385.txt"><em>Middletown Press</em></a>, discussing the struggles—and triumphs—of gay and lesbian high school athletes in Middletown, Connecticut. And the <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/library/record/2624.html?state=research&amp;type=research">2009 National School Climate Survey</a>, conducted by the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN), found that 35.7 percent of LGBT middle and high school students avoided locker rooms because they felt unsafe or uncomfortable there, making locker rooms the most feared places for LGBT students in the schools. <span id="more-9263"></span></p>
<p>Whether they are athletes or not, LGBT students—or those perceived to be—are at a high risk of being bullied and harassed at school, Nearly nine out of ten LGBT middle and high school students said they experienced harassment at school in the past year, according to the 2009 GLSEN study. Nearly a third of LGBT students surveyed said they skipped at least one day of school in the previous month because of concerns for their own safety.</p>
<p>But law and policy experts Stuart Biegel and Sheila James Kuehl, who wrote the paper &#8220;<a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www3.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/pdf/Biegel_LGBT.pdf">Safe at School</a>&#8221; for the Williams Institute, a national think tank at UCLA Law School, say that analyses of LGBT issues often overlook &#8220;just how substantial the influence of organized sports can be on the lives of students,&#8221; and how central sports can be to school culture.</p>
<p>They note that even at the K-12 level, &#8220;the culture of sports often marginalizes gay and gender-non-conforming youth by perpetuating homophobia and transphobia.&#8221;</p>
<p>Biegel and Kuehl make three key policy recommendations to help reduce homophobia and transphobia in school sports:</p>
<ul>
<li>Involve key members of campus athletic programs in LGBT-related initiatives.</li>
<li>Make it clear that homophobic comments and actions by coaches and student athletes are completely unacceptable.</li>
<li>Encourage student athletes to participate in targeted programs such as initiatives addressing bullying and hate violence, as well as gay-straight alliances, safe zones, and wellness programs.</li>
</ul>
<p>They also suggest that schools ask openly LGBT athletes, former athletes, and coaches to help with professional development and orientation programs for athletes. Additionally, schools should engage &#8220;the larger sports community, including student families, after-school sports programs such as little leagues and soccer leagues, local college and professional athletic programs, and others.&#8221;</p>
<p>Several new initiatives are attempting to address many of these same points. GLSEN in March 2011 launched <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://sports.glsen.org/">Changing the Game: The GLSEN Sports Project</a>, &#8220;to assist K-12 schools in creating and maintaining an athletic and physical education climate that is based on the core principles of respect, safety and equal access for all, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression.&#8221; Their Web site has numerous resources for athletes, parents, coaches, and school officials, as well as inspirational videos and more.</p>
<p>And Hudson Taylor, a straight, three-time NCAA Division I All-American wrester, now a Division I wrestling coach at Columbia University, has launched <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.athleteally.org/">Athlete Ally</a>, an initiative encouraging people to sign an online pledge to reduce homophobia in sports. He is seeking high school and college students to be &#8220;Athlete Ally Ambassadors&#8221; to promote the pledge and participate in future Athlete Ally initiatives.</p>
<p>Hudson also offers a weekly &#8220;Ally’s Playbook&#8221; video with suggestions for how non-LGBT athletes can help reduce homophobia.</p>
<p>The <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.nclrights.org/site/PageServer?pagename=issue_sports">Sports Project at the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR)</a> has been around for longer than either of the above initiatives—10 years now—and is a powerhouse of advocacy and education. It also offers legal assistance for LGBT athletes and coaches.</p>
<p>NCLR had worked in close partnership with the It Takes a Team initiative of the Women’s Sports Foundation (WSF) to address LGBT issues, and while WSF unfortunately shut down the initiative last year, its great resources—including curriculum guides, case studies, action plans, assessments, and policy guidelines—live on at the <a href="http://www.blogher.com/frame.php?url=http://www.womenssportsfoundation.org/Issues-And-Research/Homophobia/About-It-Takes-A-Team.aspx">WSF Web site</a>. And It Takes a Team director Pat Griffin now heads the GLSEN Sports Project.</p>
<p>All great resources—but ultimately, creating change on the playing field will be a matter of personal connections, of coaches, referees, parents, and athletes speaking out when they hear anti-LGBT slurs, see anti-LGBT bullying, or encounter any athlete being marginalized for sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression. Like sports itself, success here is only partly about the equipment and resources, and mostly about the dedication of the players.</p>
<p>Yes, taking action against homophobia and transphobia can sometimes be challenging—but if there’s one thing sports can teach us, it is how to face a challenge.</p>
<p>You got game?</p>
<p><em>Photo credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/vauvau/3986661629/">Clemens v. Vogelsang</a></em></p>
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		<title>College Basketball Star Praises Lesbian Moms</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2011/02/11/college-basketball-star-praises-lesbian-moms/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 15:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For your pre-weekend reading, ESPN.com has an interview with Morehead State University basketball star Kenneth Faried, who talks about the influence of his two moms, one of whom is battling lupus. &#8220;When they got married,&#8221; he said, &#8220;that showed me what commitment is all about, that there are people out there that can commit, even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For your pre-weekend reading, <a href="http://sports.espn.go.com/ncb/columns/story?columnist=oneil_dana&amp;id=6101092">ESPN.com</a> has an interview with Morehead State University basketball star Kenneth Faried, who talks about the influence of his two moms, one of whom is battling lupus. &#8220;When they got married,&#8221; he said, &#8220;that showed me what commitment is all about, that there are people out there that can commit, even though for them it really has been the worst of times. I look at them, what they&#8217;ve been through and I think, &#8216;Wow. That&#8217;s amazing.&#8217; They&#8217;re amazing to me.&#8221;</p>
<p>Notable, too, is that ESPN writer Dana O&#8217;Neil says Faried never encountered any teasing about his family while he was growing up in New Jersey, and that his moms never had to sit down and discuss issues of acceptance with him. He just accepted, without needing an explanation. O&#8217;Neil writes of his moms: &#8220;They loved one another, they love their kids and now they love their nine grandkids. Life is only complicated if you make it that way.&#8221;</p>
<p>Homophobia is rampant in professional and collegiate sports, as folks like <a href="http://ittakesateam.blogspot.com/">Pat Griffin</a> have extensively documented. The fear extends to secondary schools as well, as <a href="http://www2.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/pdf/Biegel_LGBT.pdf">Stuart Biegel and Sheila James Kuehl</a> have shown. People like Faried, however (who now lives in Kentucky, not the most gay-friendly of states), may help break down the barriers. Major kudos to ESPN as well, for publishing such a positive article.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;She Got Me Pregnant&#8221;: Episode 100</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/03/04/she-got-me-pregnant-episode-100/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 21:23:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Helen and I take an Olympian approach to our 100th vlog. After watching the Olympics non-stop for two weeks, we bring you the &#8220;Top Ten Reasons Parenting Is Like the Olympics&#8221; (and not just because it&#8217;s like sliding down an icy track at 90 miles per hour). Mombian: She Got Me Pregnant, 03-04-10 by drudolph [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Helen and I take an Olympian approach to our 100th vlog. After watching the Olympics non-stop for two weeks, we bring you the &#8220;Top Ten Reasons Parenting Is Like the Olympics&#8221; (and not just because it&#8217;s like sliding down an icy track at 90 miles per hour).</p>
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<strong><a href="http://www.dailymotion.com/swf/xcfum8">Mombian: She Got Me Pregnant, 03-04-10</a></strong><br />
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<p>(If the embedded video above doesn&#8217;t work for you, try it at <a href=" http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xcfum8_mombian-she-got-me-pregnant-03-04-1_gaylesbian">Dailymotion</a>.)</p>
<p>Brought to you in partnership with <a href="http://www.afterellen.com">After Ellen</a>.</p>
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		<title>NCAA Pulls Focus on Family Ads</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/24/ncaa-pulls-focus-on-family-ads/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:12:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Under pressure from LGBT advocates, including Pat Griffin, Change.org, and (I imagine) many of you, the NCAA has pulled the Focus on the Family (FOF) ads from its Web site. As I wrote yesterday, the ads were running at NCAA.com, a site managed in partnership with CBSsports.com. CBS came under fire for running FOF ads [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Under pressure from LGBT advocates, including <a href="http://ittakesateam.blogspot.com/2010/02/ncaa-pulls-focus-on-family-ads.html">Pat Griffin</a>, <a href="http://gayrights.change.org/blog/view/the_ncaa_promotes_anti-gay_focus_on_the_family">Change.org</a>, and (I imagine) many of you, the NCAA has pulled the Focus on the Family (FOF) ads from its Web site.</p>
<p>As I <a href="http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/23/tell-the-ncaa-to-stop-running-ads-for-focus-on-the-family/">wrote yesterday</a>, the ads were running at NCAA.com, a site managed in partnership with CBSsports.com. CBS came under fire for running FOF ads during the Super Bowl in January.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s still no word about future ads, or about the rumor that CBS will run FOF ads during the upcoming NCAA basketball championships, so stay tuned. Reproductive health blog <a href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/node/12673">RH Reality Check</a> also covered the story. (FOF is as anti-choice as they are anti-LGBT.) The story made the virtual pages of <a href="http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2010/02/24/ncaa">Inside Higher Ed</a>, though (h/t, <a href="http://www.towleroad.com/2010/02/ncaa-pulls-focus-on-the-family-web-ad-following-pressure.html">Andy</a>), so let&#8217;s hope that not only the LGBT community, but also the community of all fair-minded people in higher education can keep the pressure on.</p>
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		<title>Tell the NCAA to Stop Running Ads for Focus on the Family</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/23/tell-the-ncaa-to-stop-running-ads-for-focus-on-the-family/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 11:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) is running banner ads for ultra-conservative group Focus on the Family. You can see them at NCAA.com. (If you don&#8217;t, just reload the page; the ads are in rotation with some others.) This is an affront to all LGBT, feminist, and allied NCAA athletes and former athletes. I was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1659" title="basketball" src="http://www.mombian.com/images/basketball.jpg" alt="basketball" width="130" height="100" />The National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) is running banner ads for ultra-conservative group Focus on the Family. You can see them at <a href="http://www.ncaa.com/">NCAA.com</a>. (If you don&#8217;t, just reload the page; the ads are in rotation with some others.)</p>
<p>This is an affront to all LGBT, feminist, and allied NCAA athletes and former athletes. I was an NCAA athlete myself, and I&#8217;m personally pissed.</p>
<p>I first learned of the incident from <a href="http://ittakesateam.blogspot.com/2010/02/ncaa-is-shilling-for-focus-on-family.html">Pat Griffin&#8217;s LGBT Sport Blog</a>. Griffin is the former director of It Takes A Team, an education and advocacy project addressing LGBT issues in sport. She observes:</p>
<blockquote><p>The NCAA constitutional principles include an explicit prohibition on discrimination based on sexual orientation. Lesbian and gay student-athletes, coaches, and administrators are a significant part of the NCAA’s membership. Women are a significant part of the NCAA on all levels. Many of the individual institutions [<em>i.e.</em>,  colleges and universities] that belong to the NCAA have policies prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation. Yet the NCAA apparently thinks it is just fine to support an anti-gay agenda.</p></blockquote>
<p>Griffin also says (which I cannot confirm, but have no reason to doubt) that CBS plans to air FOF ads throughout the men&#8217;s NCAA basketball tournament in March &#8220;with the complete complicity, consent and support of the NCAA.&#8221; CBS, as you may know, <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/019893.html">came under fire</a> for running an FOF ad during the Super Bowl. <span id="more-6827"></span></p>
<p>NCAA.com is in fact run in partnership with CBSsports.com. It is focused on competition news and is a more commercial site than the organization&#8217;s corporate site, NCAA.org. I imagine that it is CBS that manages advertising on NCAA.com, as it does for television broadcasts. Regardless, the site uses the NCAA name and is clearly run with NCAA approval.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s true we shouldn&#8217;t stop an organization from advertising simply because we disagree with it. FOF, however, has beliefs and goals that are in direct contradiction to the principles of the NCAA and many of its member organizations. &#8220;Homosexual behavior violates God&#8217;s intentional design for gender and sexuality,&#8221; states the FOF Web site (focusonthefamily.org). &#8220;We support counseling and the availability of professional therapy options for unwanted homosexual attractions and behavior.&#8221;</p>
<p>The NCAA <a href="http://www.ncaapublications.com/ProductsDetailView.aspx?sku=D110&amp;AspxAutoDetectCookieSupport=1">bylaws</a> state, however, &#8220;The Association shall promote an atmosphere of respect for and sensitivity to the dignity of every person.&#8221;</p>
<p>Running ads from a virulently anti-LGBT organization in no way promotes that atmosphere of respect. Foul.</p>
<p>Update, 9:30 a.m.: Change.org has started a campaign to get the NCAA to take down the FOF ads. You can sign their petition <a href="http://www.change.org/actions/view/tell_the_ncaa_no_focus_on_the_family_ads">here</a>.</p>
<p>Griffin provides these contacts:</p>
<ul>
<li>NCAA Public Relations: (317) 917-6762</li>
<li>NCAA Public Relations: <a href="mailto:pmr@ncaa.org">pmr@ncaa.org</a></li>
<li>NCAA Main Number: (317) 917-6222</li>
</ul>
<p>If you are an alumna or student of an NCAA-member college or university (or have children who are), you might also want to drop a note to the school&#8217;s athletic director, asking her or him to request that the NCAA not run these ads.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;She Got Me Pregnant&#8221;: Episode 99</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/18/she-got-me-pregnant-episode-99/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Helen and I talk about watching the Olympics with our son, teaching him to skate, and keeping kids active during the winter in a snowy climate. Mombian: She Got Me Pregnant, 02-18-2010 by drudolph (If the embedded video above doesn&#8217;t work for you, try it at Dailymotion.) Brought to you in partnership with After Ellen.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Helen and I talk about watching the Olympics with our son, teaching him to skate, and keeping kids active during the winter in a snowy climate.</p>
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<strong><a href="http://www.dailymotion.com/swf/xc9k5d">Mombian: She Got Me Pregnant, 02-18-2010</a></strong><br />
<em>by <a href="http://www.dailymotion.com/drudolph">drudolph</a></em></div>
<p>(If the embedded video above doesn&#8217;t work for you, try it at <a href="http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc9k5d_mombian-she-got-me-pregnant-02-18-2_gaylesbian">Dailymotion</a>.)</p>
<p>Brought to you in partnership with <a href="http://www.afterellen.com">After Ellen</a>.</p>
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		<title>Johnny Weir, His Mom, and Gay Guinea Pigs</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/17/johnny-weir-his-mom-and-gay-guinea-pigs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 11:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What does Olympic figure skater Johnny Weir have to do with gay guinea pigs? The talented Sarah Brannen, author and illustrator of Uncle Bobby&#8217;s Wedding, the much-challenged children&#8217;s book about two male guinea pigs who marry, made a name for herself with photographs and watercolors of ice skaters long before she turned to furry rodents. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.sarahbrannen.com"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-6793" title="weir_johnny" src="http://www.mombian.com/images/weir_johnny.jpg" alt="weir_johnny" width="80" height="80" /></a>What does Olympic figure skater Johnny Weir have to do with gay guinea pigs? The talented Sarah Brannen, author and illustrator of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0399247122?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=dragmaticon-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0399247122">Uncle Bobby&#8217;s Wedding</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=dragmaticon-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0399247122" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, the <a href="http://www.mombian.com/2009/09/29/authors-thoughts-on-attempts-to-ban-gay-guinea-pigs/">much-challenged</a> children&#8217;s book about two male guinea pigs who marry, made a name for herself with photographs and watercolors of ice skaters long before she turned to furry rodents.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2196" title="unclebobby2" src="http://www.mombian.com/images/unclebobby2.jpg" alt="unclebobby2" width="200" height="225" />She&#8217;s captured the images of Olympic skaters like Weir, Rachael Flatt, Sasha Cohen, and many others. Check them out in the <a href="http://sarahbrannen.yellapalooza.com/skating/index.html">Figure Skating</a> section of <a href="http://www.sarahbrannen.com">her Web site</a>. (Please keep in mind that they are subject to copyright.)</p>
<p>Brannen is a regular contributor to <em>Skating Magazine</em>, and along with 2006 Junior World Champion pair skater Drew Meekins, writes and contributes photographs to a regular column on <a href="http://icenetwork.com/">Ice Network</a>. One of Brannen&#8217;s drawings is in the collection of the World Figure Skating Museum in Colorado Springs, Colorado.</p>
<p>If any of you have children who skate, you might want to read Sarah and Drew&#8217;s column from a couple of years back, in which they ask <a href="http://web.icenetwork.com/news/article.jsp?ymd=20080604&amp;content_id=48485&amp;vkey=ice_news">Johnny Weir&#8217;s mom Patti</a> for her thoughts on being Johnny&#8217;s mom and her advice for other skating parents.</p>
<p>I took my own son skating for the first time yesterday, and he had a blast. I have no idea if his interest will last, but I think Patti Weir&#8217;s tips could be applied to many other sports and endeavors. It sounds like she has a healthy perspective on what really matters: &#8220;Be the positive reinforcement to your child.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>A Lesbian Olympic Soundtrack</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/15/a-lesbian-olympic-soundtrack/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 11:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to the industrious folks at After Ellen, we now know there are four (count &#8216;em, four!) out lesbian athletes in this year&#8217;s Olympics, and no gay male ones. That didn&#8217;t stop Olympic organizers from having k.d. lang perform at the opening ceremonies, or prevent NBC from using Melissa Etheridge&#8217;s &#8220;This Moment&#8221; for the closing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-206" title="Snowy Mountain" src="http://www.mombian.com/images//snowy_mountain_2.jpg" alt="Snowy Mountain" width="100" height="66" />Thanks to the industrious folks at <a href="http://www.afterellen.com/blwe/02-12-10?page=0%2C1">After Ellen</a>, we now know there are four (count &#8216;em, four!) out lesbian athletes in this year&#8217;s Olympics, and no gay male ones.</p>
<p>That didn&#8217;t stop Olympic organizers from having k.d. lang perform at the opening ceremonies, or prevent NBC from using Melissa Etheridge&#8217;s &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001NCR5FM?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=dragmaticon-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001NCR5FM">This Moment</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=dragmaticon-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001NCR5FM" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />&#8221; for the closing montage of their Sunday night coverage.</p>
<p>This got me thinking (though perhaps my brain was addled from watching the speedskaters earlier—mmm, speedskaters): Many of Melissa&#8217;s songs seem to match up well with Winter Olympic sports, to wit:</p>
<ul>
<li>&#8220;Bring Me Some Water&#8221;: Cross-country skiing.</li>
<li>&#8220;Like the Way I Do&#8221;: Pairs skating.</li>
<li>&#8220;You Can Sleep While I Drive&#8221;: Bobsled (drivers only).</li>
<li>&#8220;Brave and Crazy&#8221;: This could fit a lot. Ski jumping and halfpipe snowboarding come to mind.</li>
<li>&#8220;An Unexpected Rain&#8221;: Downhill skiing (at least so far this week).</li>
<li>&#8220;Nowhere to Go&#8221;: Short-track speedskating.</li>
<li>&#8220;Touch and Go&#8221;: Short-track speedskating relay.</li>
<li>&#8220;Precious Pain&#8221;: Pretty much any of them.</li>
<li>And for the athletes who don&#8217;t medal, we have &#8220;Stronger than Me,&#8221; &#8220;I Could Have Been You,&#8221; and &#8220;No Souvenirs.&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p>Too much lesbian sporty geekiness? Naw. No such thing.</p>
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		<title>In Memoriam: Brendan Burke</title>
		<link>http://www.mombian.com/2010/02/07/in-memoriam-brendan-burke/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 21:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last November, I posted about Brian Burke, the gruff president and general manager of the Toronto Maple Leafs, who very publicly supported his gay son Brendan, a hockey player for Miami University. Today I just learned of the sad news that Brendan was killed in a weather-related two-car accident in Indiana Friday afternoon. My deepest [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last November, I <a href="http://www.mombian.com/2009/11/25/hockey-dad-gay-son/">posted</a> about Brian Burke, the gruff president and general manager of the Toronto Maple Leafs, who very publicly supported his gay son Brendan, a hockey player for Miami University. Today I just learned of the <a href="http://advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/02/05/Brendan_Burke_Dies_in_Indiana_Car_Accident/">sad news</a> that Brendan was killed in a weather-related two-car accident in Indiana Friday afternoon.</p>
<p>My deepest condolences to Brendan&#8217;s family, who loved him unconditionally.</p>
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