Well, I share requests for studies of LGBTQ parents, too, when they come across my desk from respected sources. Stay tuned!
Wow! That’s very cool, Linda. Thanks so much for sharing.
Thanks, Linda. Yes, it sucks, doesn’t it? I’m very grateful for your thoughts. My best to your family, too.
Thanks, S. Yes, it was particularly hard over the holidays, but I suppose there’s not really a “good” time. I appreciate your kind thoughts.
Thanks, Jen — and good thoughts back to your family in your loss as well.
Elisa, thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts. I appreciate it more than I can express here.
Thanks for your comment, Ann. I agree with you about the racism of the story — but I did, however, acknowledge it, writing in my post that, “I should acknowledge, however, that the original story and many of its later interpretations also have disturbing amounts of racism in their portrayals of Tiger Lily and the Indians, which I was unaware of as a child and cannot condone.”
Thanks, Polly — as always, your words mean a lot. I wasn’t sure if my words would come out the way I wanted them to — I guess it was a way of channeling my own rage into something (I hope) constructive.
Jonathan: Thanks so much for the link! I’ve updated the post. Clearly this wasn’t a widely publicized move — but I’m happy to know it’s been around for a few monthttp://www.mombian.com/wp-admin/edit-comments.php#comments-formhs now.
Cool! My spouse and I met in Wisconsin, although we don’t live there anymore. So great to see attitudes changing!
Yup. I’ve never understood that argument myself. It seems such a ludicrous stretch of logic. Let’s hope the U.S. Supreme Court agrees, whenever they get to ruling on it.
You’re welcome! Based on Bergman’s one and two tweets today, it simply seems he wasn’t aware of all the books you offered.
Thanks for all of your support over the years, Elisa!
Great observations, Mary. Clearly, there’s a lot more to explore in terms of our history — and a lot to be conscious of as a community as we move into the future.
Thanks, Mary! That’s a great idea — but would definitely take some work. Maybe I’ll try to pull something together to share by the time next year’s event rolls around. Stay tuned!
No problem! Yes, this all puts me in mind of the saying that “History is written by the victors.” Looks like we’re finally winning. Having a sense of our own history is important on a personal level, too — makes us feel less like we have to make up everything as we go along (although every parent, LGBTQ and not, does some of that, I think).
Thanks, Mary! Yes, the change over time that you note is interesting. Rivers covers some of it in his book, but clearly there’s more to be said.
Thanks for the tip! Added!
Good point. Nuance isn’t something that works well in many media venues, alas.
Thanks for the info! I’ll update the post!
You’re very welcome! Thanks for your great post!
Thanks for the suggestion, Jan! Will check it out.
Great story, RoiAnn! Thanks so much for sharing.
Agreed! That’s a great idea.
Thanks so much! You’re very kind. So glad you liked the post.