“She Got Me Pregnant”: Episode 46

This week, Helen and I offer our parenting perspectives on recent news about celebrity lesbian moms Melissa and Tammy Etheridge and Rosie O’Donnell. What would happen if moms showed off their parenting talents on Rosie’s upcoming variety show? We also wonder why there aren’t more celebrity gay dads, despite the recent addition of singer Clay Aiken.

Finally, in honor of National Coming Out Day this Saturday, we discuss our experiences being out parents, including a funny encounter at a bagel shop.

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3 Responses to ““She Got Me Pregnant”: Episode 46”

1. 
   Marilyn
   on Oct 9th, 2008
   @ 1:31 pm: 

   I think the issues you brought are great. Although I must say I haven’t had the bad luck in Western Upstate NY and getting pregnant. I think my attitude had alot to do with it. I didn’t carry, but went in there confident and placed myself in the position to ask questions and had in turn my needs met. We are now on baby 2 and still have no issues. Actually the nurses know me and speak to me as just the other parent.
   As for school it’s the same think. I think if we display any sense of other people will treat us as such. Our child knows us as Momma, and Mommina, Italian for mother- yet he calls us both what ever he wishes. We now which one he want when.
   When you start to be a parent it’s less about you and more about them, and so although I want to keep him safe from hatred. I also want him, and the future child to express inclusion, and acceptance.

2. 
   Halene
   on Oct 12th, 2008
   @ 5:23 pm: 

   hello, my partner and I had an experience similar to your in the deli/bagel counter, but for us it was in our son’s preschool. Last spring our son was enrolled in a mommy and me type preschool.. I was the one who accompanied him and got to interact with the class teacher and the other parents. I introduced myself and our family using the ‘my partner’ term which in my mind meant I outed myself to the group (teacher included). However, the term partner now has been so used by straight people often in an effort to embrace more all encompassing terminology so frequently also doesn’t necessarily always conjure up the notion of lesbian in people’s minds. Often what I think is obvious is not so, and I suppose I should have thrown in a few more.. ’she’ pronouns when discussing my partner, or something, because when we signed up again this fall for the same class.. and got the same teacher, she was thrown for a loop seeing my (familiar) son enter her class with my (unfamiliar) partner. The teacher says, “I know you”, to our son, and “but you aren’t his mom”, to my partner. She replied, “yes I am”, then paused to let the teacher think a moment, then adds, “he has two moms”. I’m now curious to see whether she uses more fluid gender terminology for spouses/partners.. last term she kept referring to our “husbands” which was irritating last time! Thanks to you both for your thoughtful blog.

3. 
   Dana
   on Oct 13th, 2008
   @ 12:57 am: 

   Thanks, Marilyn and Halene, for sharing your stories.