Set your VCR’s and Tivo’s. From an e-mail to supporters by Steven Goldstein, Chair, Garden State Equality:

On Friday, October 12th, Garden State Equality Board member Denise Brunner, her wife Fran and their kids Jessica, Scott and Alyssa—all very active members in Garden State Equality—will be the guests on The Oprah Winfrey Show, seen at 4:00 pm throughout New Jersey.

If you live in North Jersey, the show is on WABC-TV/7. If you live in South Jersey, the show is on WPVI-TV/6. [People in other areas should check their local ABC listings.]

The topic of the show: Families who stay together, and remain happy, once a member of the couple starts to live true to her gender identity or expression. Denise was Fran’s husband for many years before becoming Fran’s wife.

The show is absolutely worth your recording so you can watch it when you get home from work.

On a personal note, Denise, Fran, Jessica, Scott and Alyssa Brunner are among my partner Daniel’s and my closest friends. The Brunners among the most loving people in the world. To spend time with them is always to be deeply enriched.

As the U.S. Congress debates whether to cut the transgender community out of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), watch this show and ask yourself: Do families like the Brunners deserve to suffer because of the prejudice that people have against our transgender sisters and brothers?